关系推进篇  
1. 试探意向  
   - "Are you looking for marriage or just dating?"  
     （你是以结婚为目的的恋爱吗？） 

   - 🌟 "How serious are you about finding a life partner?"  
     （你对于寻找人生伴侣有多认真？）  
   - 🌟 "I'm ready to settle down, what about you?"  
     （我已准备好安定下来，你呢？）  
   适用场景：避免与只想要casual dating的人浪费时间

2. 深度沟通  
   - "What's your deal-breaker in a relationship?"  
        （你的恋爱底线是什么？）

   - 🌟 "What kind of arguments would make you walk away?"  
     （什么样的争吵会让你选择离开？）  
   - 🌟 "How do you usually handle conflicts?"  
     （你通常如何处理矛盾？）  
   文化提示：西方人更接受直接讨论矛盾处理方式*

3. 金钱观
   - "I prefer splitting bills on dates, is that okay with you?"  
      （我喜欢AA制，你能接受吗？）

   - 🌟 "Should we take turns paying for meals?"  
     （我们轮流请客如何？）  
   - 🌟 "What's your view on joint accounts after marriage?"  
     （你对婚后共同账户怎么看？）  
   *禁忌：避免第一次聊天就问对方收入*  

4. **宗教信仰**  
   - "How important is religion in your daily life?"  
       （信仰对你的生活有多重要？）

   - 🌟 "Would you expect me to convert to your faith?"  
     （你会希望我改信你的宗教吗？）  
   - 🌟 "How do you celebrate your important religious days?"  
     （你如何庆祝重要宗教节日？）  
   *安全提问：先问节日习俗再深入  

安全防护篇 

5. 身份核实  
   - "Could we do a video call with your ID card?"  
      （能否视频时出示你的身份证？）

   - 🌟 "Can we meet at [当地地标] for the first date?"  
     （首次约会能在[某地标]见面吗？）  
   - 🌟 "What's the name of your first pet?"  
     （你第一个宠物叫什么？）  
   防骗技巧：验证对方细节一致性*  

6. 拒绝技巧  
   - "I need more time before sharing private photos."  
      （我需要更多时间才能分享私密照片）

   - 🌟 "I don't feel comfortable discussing that yet."  
     （我还没准备好讨论这个话题）  
   - 🌟 "Let's keep things slow for now."  
     （我们暂时慢慢来）  
   *适用场景：应对过快推进关系的要求*  

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### **💍 婚姻实质篇**  
7. **婚前协议**  
   - "Do you think a prenup protects both sides?"  
      （你觉得婚前协议是保护双方吗？）

   - 🌟 "How would you divide assets if we separate?"  
     （如果分开你觉得财产该如何分配？）  
   - 🌟 "Do you have any existing financial obligations?"  
     （你有任何财务负担吗？）  
   *最佳时机：确定关系后2-3个月*  

8. **子女教育**  
   - "Would you want our kids to be bilingual?"  
        （你希望孩子成为双语者吗？） 

   - 🌟 "Which country's education system do you prefer?"  
     （你更倾向哪国的教育体系？）  
   - 🌟 "Would you send our kids to boarding school?"  
     （你会送孩子去寄宿学校吗？）  
   9. 突发危机  
   - 🌟 "I feel unsafe, I need to leave now."  
     （我觉得不安全，现在必须离开）  
   - 🌟 "Please call the police for me."  
     （请帮我报警）  
   安全提示：提前存入手机紧急联系人快捷键 

10. 医疗协助  
    - 🌟 "I'm allergic to penicillin."  
      （我对青霉素过敏）  
    - 🌟 "Where is the nearest women's clinic?"  
      （最近的女性诊所在哪里？）